How did your family react to your septum piercing? What did your mum and dad say? I have a cousin who wants one sooo baddd, but she doesnt know how her parents will react. Its nice though!
I got it done spontaneously cause it was something I’ve always wanted but held off on because my sister always told me she thought I’d look bad with it.
One day I just got it pierced. Then I told my sister who surprisingly loved it. Then my mom accidentally found out and although she doesn’t like it, she respects it.
Our parents forbid us from certain things with the intention to protect us and better prepare us for the future. After many years of convincing them, my parents realize I am an adult and I can handle the consequences of my actions. And I wouldn’t do anything to jeopardize their trust.
At the end of the day you do what you want. But be aware of the consequences of your actions. And if that means dealing with angry parents, assess the situation. If you think it’s something they can handle and eventually get over, take the risk at your own caution.
If you think they’ll throw a fit and rage over the septum till your death, is it worth it?
“If you’ve messed up the first part of Ramadan, don’t mess up the last part. Start now and don’t give up. Don’t mourn over the past. Concentrate on now! Make taubah, hold your tongue, and work hard to get closer to your Lord!”—(via islamicrays)
Hi! Ik u live in rva, so I was wondering if u can do me a favor. There is a protest this Tues outside city Hall at 12 pm. We are protesting the ongoing massacre happening in Gaza, Palestine. If you can let your followers know that would b great! Ty.
RVA DO THIS OK. OR IF YOU ARE CLOSE TO RICHMOND. BUT PLEASE ATTEND. PLEASE.PLEASE.PLEASE.
Today during iftar I wasn’t speaking much and my mom assumed I was mad at my sister. So, being the cheeseball that she is she begins to talk about how sisters shouldn’t argue and how we should always do our best to make amends, you never know when might be the last time you see them.
And then she breaks down. Out of no where she just breaks. And starts crying.
My mom hasn’t seen her sisters in years, 8 years maybe.
I can barely stand not seeing mine for 8 hours.
It was so heartbreaking to watch. I know its one of those pains that nothing we did that moment could truly make her feel better.
Emotionally and mentally, my mom and I are exactly the same. We care too much and we can’t help but shed tears when we get overwhelmed. I talk about how much I admire my father a lot. But truly, my moms strength is amazing. The amount that she has sacrificed for our family’s well being is admirable.
My dad has majority of his immediate family here - my mom has no one. No one.
Day and night I remind myself of this - I will work my ass off so she can sit on her bum and drink chai with her sisters all day.
One day, iA. One day soon.
Whatever I can’t provide for her in this life, I hope she is rewarded with tenfold in the next. Ameen.